There’s a saying which goes like ‘women are complicated’, but are they really? Apparently all of manhood on the planet have given way too many statements on women about not speaking their mind, being confused and walking in circles. But are the women really at fault here? Well, I can’t speak for the entire women clan out here, but I can surely say from my personal experience that men have definitely taken it too far.
He obviously can’t be a plain jerk because it would put him in a bad light, so why not drop subtle hints that would automatically crush your soul wondering what the hell he wants, while he flaunts how he’s got you by a thread to his buddies.
Here are some lines used by men that we’ve definitely heard at some point of time in our lives and what men really mean when they say these –
1. ‘Let’s not label the relationship’
Well, if I make it official with you while I’m seeing other women, that would just make me a cheater. So why not have my fun with you (and the other girls) with a simple use of this statement. Win-win eh?
2. ‘Is this about your ex?’
Because God forbid if I ever take responsibility for my own actions, but there’s no way I’m going to do that. So I’ll just keep projecting the blame at anything I can find until you’re frustrated as hell.
3. ‘I don’t deserve you’
See what I just did there? There was no way I could dump you without being the bad guy here so I just pulled a whole lot of bullsh*t where I smartly dumped myself because there was no way you were going to do it and I just needed to get away from you so bad.
4. ‘I don’t want to hold you back’
But in all honesty, you’re holding me back. I don’t want to be with you anymore, but saying that out loud will end up making me sound like a douche.
5. ‘I want to focus on my career right now’
I’m not happy with you but I certainly can’t tell you the truth without coming out as the a**hole. Instead, I’ll invent all the career nonsense I can find while fooling around with all the possible women I can.
6. ‘I have a lot on my plate right now’
When I want to break-up, I’ll simply construct a story about random issues that don’t even exist because that’s how much I want to get rid off you.
7. ‘There’s no need to get so emotional’
Let’s talk this through when you’re more calm, because clearly there’s no way I’m going to admit I messed up. In fact, I’m going to pretend to be the better one and suggest a rational approach and make you feel you’re blowing it out of proportion. I can’t certainly look bad, so why not make you feel like a fool?